Disturbance

I'm trying to get my life in order and have been working very very hard at it.  Tonight again I'm unsettled.  I need to pick up the last of my life items at my ex's house. I'm working hard on arranging transport from there to here.  I thought I had it arranged but he isn't available when I can get some folks to move my stuff.  He has offered to bring them to me on Sunday.  The issue is--do I want him to come here?  Do I let him do the work to bring me my stuff?  Questions Questions but any answers.